Essay writting III: Never judge a book by its cover

Look for a mirror and look to yourself on there, you can see your eyes, your nose, and you mouth, etc. Do you are one on this parts? You are the addition of all that parts and more.

Your personality is a special part or this addition. But do not confuse your personality with your attitudes, because this last depend of the context. Goffman, a Canadian sociology from 20’s, talks about the life like it was a theatrical stage, when exist the “backstage” and the “front stage”. In the front stage you demonstrated your attitudes, according your personality; you are acting for the rest of people. You are not lying, you are acting.

On the other hand, in the backstage you can leave flow your personality. The backstage is the palaces where you feel safe and do not think how you want to act, because you feel that you have not audience.  You mind is a type of backstage, because no one can see you there (maybe, a mentalist, but this other point). When you are alone, when you are with a special people, who you truth, you are in your own backstage.

As said before, when you are in the front stage, you are not lying (except if you want it) you are acting in the way that you think that you need to act. This can mean that how you look do not have relation with how you act or be, in the same way you can act according to how you look. 

Am I the one who the rest can see or the one than could not? You are the both of them. You are the same people who are stand up on the front stage and who are hiding on the backstage. And this work for everyone, do not judge a book by its cover.